“An Archevore is someone who eats based on essential principles, and also someone who hungers for essential principles. Take your pick.”
In-line with the spirit of this post, we start with a diet based on PRINCIPLES that are aimed towards optimal health.
Many find this diet EXCELLENT at improving fat loss without any calorie counting.
Rules of thumb:
I know many who have been eating this way for years, works out 1-2 times a week, doesn’t spend time thinking about what to eat, and maintains a good physique year round.
This stuff seems common sense for many now, but many people wondering why they are depressed or anxious or stressed could start by examining their diet.
Does bullet coffee actually work? You know, consuming your coffee with some fat in it?
Yes, but it’s not a cheat code. The fat content forces the caffeine to disperse slower, so the “hit” you experience peaks lower but lasts longer, hence people swearing by bullet coffee for long-lasting energy.
Simplest version:
High fat content within coffee means suppression of appetite. Some people report eating later in the day, and eventual weight loss.
Juice a full POUND of a vegetable (examples: chlorella, kale, spinach, barley grass, wheatgrass, brocolli, swiss chard) You can add fruit for flavor but try to control the same fruit for every shake.
Drink in the morning and assess energy throughout the day.
You’ll find out over time which vegetables work best for your body because you can actually FEEL the difference in energy levels. Idea is to experiment here: finding a vegetable that your body works well with is worth its weight in gold!
Here’s a secret: coconut oil is an amazing moisturizer.
Not actually a secret. Coconut oil has been used for millenia to moisturize and even acts as a natural sunscreen.
This is an important one. AKA making decisions for groups of people.
Mini example: At work and everybody’s wondering where to eat lunch.
Make the decision. Just put anything out there. It doesn’t matter what you say. At worst it will get a conversation going.
People will subconsciously be thankful, and they won’t realize it.
Best thing I read in 2019 and it’s short too
Implementing, you’ll realize it extends far, far beyond lunch choice.
This is important.
Take a quiet moment and ask whose approval you’re seeking in the things that you do every day.
For me it was (and still is?) my dad’s.
I’d get frustrated when he didn’t “acknowledge” something that I had accomplished, or when I felt like he was lecturing me on a topic I knew more about.
The most interesting part of this was that I could have spent a lifetime carrying this frustration without knowing it. Just walking away from our conversations with a tiny feeling of resentment and never questioning it.
I think most peoples’ decisions are driven by need for approval. I’ve noticed some feel this more strongly towards their parents, some towards their peers.
But nobody can give us this approval the way we imagine it. Literally nobody.
For the best portrayal I’ve seen of this in art, watch The Meyerwitz stories
Highly recommend breaking down your “desire for approval from X” with a good friend or psych. It might be uncomfortable as shit, and that’s a good sign you should talk about it.